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Is there anything wrong with me because I'm still single?

13.06.2025 04:43

Is there anything wrong with me because I'm still single?

There are many signs that indicate a lack of effort and attention, such as not spending time together, not arranging dates, ignoring, or not wiling to compromise on planes just to help you.

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The reason why men are choosing to be single is difficult to evaluate, as this behavior was recently noticed and research is being done, but we still don't have concrete evidence regarding the specific hypothesis.

Now, singlism in many countries is seen as a choice rather than an outcome of low self-esteem and poor social skills. It is seen that when society becomes comfortable with some phenomenon, people start adapting it more openly.

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Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

Women have also changed their priorities; the role of women portrayed in movies has shaped their thinking. Most women focus on themselves and earn enough money to support themselves. They do not depend on the man for their bread and butter. The major attraction for women in men was money; now that they are hustling themselves and earning equal to men, they prefer to be single and entangled in a relationship.

Men also handled loneliness negatively; the cases of depression and anxiety are much higher in single men as compared to women.

The ratio of being single is higher among men than in women worldwide, and it is shocking because men are polygynous; their ancestors used to have more than one female partner, but why this paradigm shift?

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2. Unrealistic Standards.

In changing the goal of mankind, our standard of choice has drastically changed. The world has gone through an intellectual revolution, and people demand rationality and reasoning behind every matter. Even though it is about choosing the right partner, and yes, logical reasoning should be considered while choosing a partner, we will discuss how that has affected the bonding between couples.

Ask your gurus why they are single and why every person rejected them on date.Why do opposite genders dislike them, and why don't they have peaceful relationships?

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Some of the commonly seen reasons are skill deficit, can't match the standard of girls, self-esteem issue, availability of sex, porn consumption, fear of rejection, change in priorities, and being single by choice.

3. Change in priorities.

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We are the most narcissist generation, and it is affecting our capability to bond with others, especially in relationships. As I said, most efforts are silent efforts. We need to put on glasses that magnify the effort others are making. In therapy, it is very difficult to make someone believe that they are wrong. Many psychological factors come into play, like a fragile ego, unconscious conflict, defense mechanisms, etc.

If men and women think they are blessed or superior naturally, the universe deserves to treat them with all love just because who they are is a delusion. If you think you are charming, pretty, and skilled, remember that there will always be more pretty, charming, and skilled people than you.

Changing in the traditional roles of male and female leads to a change in perspective towards marriage and long-term relationships, as society is becoming more accepting of the idea of singularity, and now it is no longer seen as a failure; people are opting for it deliberately.

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We grow up listening to stories where men stand all day in the heat just to catch a glimpse of their ladylove. Even replying on time is a genuine effort.

Your partners, if you are in a relationship, deserve the effort because everyone makes a silent effort, and it is shallow to mention your efforts every time.

We never learn self-evaluation, so as a result, self-criticism and self-righteousness rise in our personalities.

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This one is common: we humans psychologically overestimate our capabilities, and often narcissistic behavior causes us to have unmet delusional standards. If you ask someone what the criteria of their ideal partner are, they will list down so many things, and when you ask what you will bring to the table, they will give the most average answers, such as loyalty, time, and hotness! Which is not an extraordinary standard.

Relationships and companionships are necessities for humans. In the story of human origin, when Adam and Eve were made, the very first humans were made as a couple. The concept of companionship was very different for our ancestors, where the primary function of human life was survival and producing progeny. Thus, mankind has gone through various disasters in history, from the Ice Age to the Metroid and volcano eruptions. These had destroyed the ancient civilization, and the survival of the fittest was worshipped.

I call this inner work: meeting your dark side and channeling that energy into positive qualities. It does take time and effort to become a high-value person, but when you have high-energy people around you, you can sense it and respond according to it. That's how the law of attraction works.

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Self-evaluation is a journey of introspection, a mirror to identity, to correctly evaluate your worth in society. When we are lazy, resentful, self-obsessed, and disloyal, how can we expect our partner to be an ideal lover? When we don't even know how to receive and reciprocate love.

One piece of advice worth mentioning is that your efforts must align with your role. Women aren't made to earn money for their whole family, paying for vacations. Similarly, men should be least likely to put effort into home decoration, etc.

Globalization and industrialization have changed the direction of the human race; now, nations do not worry about their existence but increase the quality of life.

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4. Radical Feminism.

Not only men but women are also choosing not to have any partners. Recently, Trent skyrocketed on TikTok, where people are posting their confessions that they are single, they want to date, but they don't have any option, and mostly women are in their thirties. Now I will give you the reason why both sides are infuriated and frustrated with each other.

Social media has played a crucial role in making people delusive about relationships; most of the content is fake and made to gain views. Believing in such an influencer is an act of dull mind. Set your standards based on your self-evaluation, and then you will get out of your own unearthly heaven.

What is the typical mentality of the Indian society?

Humans marry and produce heirs for the purpose of survival, and the selection of men and women is also based on these criteria. Galant men are preferred over weak ones, and fecund women are preferred over infertile.

1- Not Putting Enough Efforts.

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